UBER-M to overcome persistent pain

understand painPersisting pain pervades all aspects of life, thinking, feeling and doing. Pain affects decision making, with tendencies to avoid or sometimes overdo and lead to a flare up. This is very individual, and each person will have their stories to tell about fears, worries, beliefs and what they did.

The Pain Coach Programme gives the person knowledge about their pain and skills to make moment to moment decisions about what is best to think and do at any given moment. In effect, the Pain Coach is coaching the person to become their own coach! The person is with themselves at all times, and therefore needs the knowledge in order to make the best choice. And this choice is all about taking an action that takes you towards your vision of where you wish to be. Where you wish to be is in the answer to the question ‘why do I want to get better?’

One of the strategies I coach people with persistent pain is called UBER-M. Cheesy perhaps, but easily remembered. One of the first things we do in the Pain Coach Programme is to help the person understand their pain, this to reduce fear and increase engagement with what needs to be done to overcome pain. You cannot solve a problem unless you understand it. But it is not just telling the person about their pain, it must be a working knowledge that can be applied: what do I know, what can I do now that is wise and healthy? This is the ‘U’. And below are the others:

U – understand your pain

B – breathe (mindfulness, relaxation)

E – exercises (general exercise, specific exercises & training)

R – recharge (we need to have enough energy to engage with the programme, with others, at work etc)

M – movement is congruent with health, but you need to develop confidence to move

For more information Pain Coach | Specialist Pain Physio Clinics London | Richmond Stace

What’s next for UP?

singforpainAfter today’s huge success once again, we know that we are on the right path. The support from the members of Rock Choir and the public was incredible, demonstrating that people recognise the scale of the problem. They also acknowledged that the situation is changeable, and we will certainly be driving this change with both our messages at events and with the Pain Coach seminars. Pain Coach is an approach to persisting pain that incorporates the latest pain sciences, the latest thinking in pain and strengths based coaching for successfully overcoming pain and resuming a meaningful life — watch out for the dates. This is all about the individual understanding their pain and knowing what action to take at any given moment to take them towards the life they envision.

singforpainHere are our immediate objectives that we are now working upon:

  • Achieving charity status
  • Pain Coach seminars for people suffering persisting pain and their carers
  • Pain Coach seminars for clinicians and others who need to understand pain (e.g. lawyers, human resources, occupational health, managers within business)
  • The next events that will always include music and song; simply because it makes us feel great!!

Party time with upandsingOur aim is to develop and mature UP, widening our net gradually as we support and educate society about pain and how we can go about changing and overcoming pain. If you would like to help us grow, please do get in touch: upandsing@gmail.com

We will announce Pain Coach dates and the next event very soon. Please tell your friends and colleagues about us and ask them to join our journey — a fun way of delivering a serious message and taking definite action.

We look forward to seeing you at the next event!

What a day!

upandsingWe had a fantastic day at T5 London Heathrow today with around 800 Rock Choir members singing out for UP. There were some memorable moments as favourite songs were performed to passengers and staff as they walked through the corridor of melody between the opposing choirs, including a rugby team and a school tour, both of whom joined the spirit of the occasion. Here are some clips from the today:

UP in the news

UPYesterday The Basingstoke Gazette published an article about the UP event tomorrow at Heathrow (Sat 24th October 2015). We are very excited about this second huge sing-song as the members of Rock Choir get ready to belt out the tunes all day at T5, London Heathrow. We will be filing the event and sharing the footage after the event, so you won’t miss out on the fun.

Read the article here

A brief guide to pain – what is it?

Welcome to my brief guide to pain. Pain is an enormous topic, drawing upon many disciplines and fields, similar to the study of consciousness. Whilst putting together my thoughts to answer the question ‘what is pain?’ I soon realised that it was going to be a lengthy piece, and only for those who had the time and inclination to bear with me. Regular readers of my blog at Specialist Pain Physio will be familiar with the importance of understanding pain (hence UP!! and @upandsing) as the start of changing and overcoming pain, particularly persistent pain. Now it is obvious why we called our campaign UP | understand pain — because when you do, you’ll realise that it can change when you take action, and that is what Pain Coach is all about.

So here’s my brief guide to pain in bullet points:

What is pain?

Here are some facts but not all (we will always discover new facts, and I will update accordingly):

  • This is my recent thinking on pain: “Pain is the conscious experience of a need state, others being hunger and thirst, felt by a person in a particular area of the body in respect of a perceived threat (that may be conscious or subconscious, or both), not separate from the context of the moment, the environment, prior experience, predicted experience, the social circumstance, current biological state, health, thoughts, feelings & emotions”.
  • Pain is a vital survival device, without it we do not live as long or as healthily.
  • Pain is part of the way we protect ourselves alongside changes in movement, body sense, thinking, emotions, perceptions of the environment, planning, anticipation, attention.
  • Pain is how we protect ourselves in the face of a perceived threat. When our body systems detect danger, actual or potential, there is a need to protect and this includes pain in the area that is perceived to need such protection — consider that the sum of sampling our body tissues, organs, systems (they sample themselves as well), plus the sum of the environment, plus the results of sampling the brain (what do I know, where am I, what are my beliefs, what have I done here before, what has worked, how am I feeling etc) leads to what we experience in any given moment; and if the sum of all of these inseparable characteristics of being alive represents some kind of threat, then we will change our behaviours and experience pain. For the mathematicians:
    • (what is happening in my body + what is happening in the environment + what I know + what I do not know I know) right now = (my reality in this moment) that is always passing
  • It is poorly related to the extent of the injury or tissue damage.
  • It hurts and ‘I’ feel it in my body (or where my body used to be or should have been, in the case of phantom limb pain).
  • It is ‘I’ who feels pain, not my body; I hurt, much like I am thirsty and not my mouth
  • When I feel better, my pain feels better (because I feel pain).
  • Pain involves many body systems — always the nervous system, often the immune system, plus the autonomic nervous system, the endocrine system and the sensorimotor system.
  • There is no pain system, there are no pain signals. There are systems that detect changes and presume threat that requires attention and action; pain compels us to do something to make it go away, both in how we think and what we do.
  • Pain is influenced by how we are feeling, how we think about it, where we are, who we are with, what we have been doing, what we are doing, what we may do, how tired we are, how much attention we put on the pain and our expectations to name but a few.
  • We can only feel pain now, in the present moment. Our memory of the pain experience is unreliable, and whilst we may recall that we were in pain several days or weeks ago, we cannot remember that actual feel of the pain with any accuracy. Like any experience, pain happens in the moment but is hugely flavoured by the way we think about it. For example, if we are anticipating that something will hurt, such as getting up from a chair, then it usually does and more due to the expectation priming our systems that protect. If we have pain under certain circumstances, an association can develop so that the next time the context arises, protection kicks in, including pain.

Next time….what sorts of things can we do to overcome pain?

Richmond Stace | Pain Coach & Specialist Pain Physiotherapist

CRPS UK Conference | November 2015

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I was very pleased to be asked to speak at the CRPS UK Conference this year (see flyer for information). A few years ago I went to the conference and gave a talk about some of the latest approaches to treating CRPS, and since then there has been further progression in both thought and action. I will be looking at these developments as well as sharing the stage with Georgie who will be telling her story.

Those familiar with the UP mission will know that we are delivering messages about pain based on fact and science, illustrated by people’s lived experiences that demonstrate how individuals can move forward and live meaningful lives by understanding their pain and knowing what they can do at any given moment.

One of the problems with treatment and ‘sessions’ with healthcare professionals is that the actual face to face is limited in comparison to the rest of the time. Hence the individual must develop their knowledge and skills so that at any moment they can make a clear decision about the best course of action in terms of how they think and what they do. Arising as a solution to this problem, I developed Pain Coach, which is not only about coaching the individual in pain but also guiding them to become their own coach. This is a blend of the latest neuroscience, thinking in pain and a strengths based coaching model — we all have strengths and values that we have used in our lives, and we can use these for success with our painful problems as well.

The CRPS UK conference will be off the back of the UP event at Heathrow in October, so we shall be full of beans! UP uses singing and music to deliver our messages, but I leave that to Georgie and her choirs — I will not be subjecting you to my tones!

Hope to see you there!

2nd UP event 24th October 2015

UP HeathrowAt UP | Understand Pain we are really excited to have our second event following the enormous success of the launch in March. We had hundreds of choir members from Rock Choir, singing out for UP at Heathrow where passengers and staff enjoyed the entertainment at Terminal 5. This time we are going bigger and better with more choirs and a non-stop sing-a-thon, the only breaks being brief talks about UP, what we are doing and why.

UP was formed by Georgie and Richmond earlier this year to raise the awareness of the huge problem of pain (back pain is the number one global health burden; in the top 10 of global health burdens we have back pain, neck pain, osteoarthritis and headaches), and that there is plenty that we can do to change and overcome pain, this to resume a meaningful life as exemplified by Georgie herself and many others.

One of the biggest problems regarding pain that we face as a society, is the misunderstanding of pain itself. It is still thought of and treated as if the body structures are to blame, i.e. where the pain resides is where the issue exists and where treatment must be directed. Pain science has been telling us for years, since Pat Wall and Ron Melzack shifted our thinking, that there is much more to consider as the biology exists elsewhere in the main. The latest thinking blends science and philosophy to consider pain as a whole person, lived experience — e.g. in the case of back pain, it is the person who feels pain, not the back; much like hunger, it is the person who feels hungry and not their stomach.

Our current priorities are:

  1. To achieve charity status — this will afford us opportunities for fundraising and other benefits of being a charity. We have had numerous offers from people who wish to run to raise money. We will support people who wish to fundraise with information and t-shirts
  2. To develop the website and social media presence
  3. Start the Pain Coach workshops* with the monies raised so far and from the next event.

* more information to follow on Pain Coach workshops.

If you are travelling through Terminal 5 or work at the Terminal, come and see us and show your support!! If not, don’t worry as we are filming the event so that the World can see the performances and hear our messages.

Onwards and UPwards….. please spread the word and ‘like us’ on Facebook and follow us on Twitter @upandsing

Pain-ting | send us your drawings ‘what is pain?’

Pain-tingWe are designing a book that will be illustrated by children’s pictures of what they think of pain. As part of our awareness and action campaign to tackle the problem of chronic pain, the book will tell stories about how people have overcome their pain and problems to lead meaningful lives. We hope that this will inspire others to learn the facts about their pain and see how they can move forwards.

Tweet your pictures @upandsing or email them to us upandsing@gmail.com